Stuff that sometimes I do not get

Hey my few readers, I really hope you’re doing good. I had some time I did not post because of the work,school,errands on Santo Domingo and some other stuff. Anyways, I want to share some questions I made to myself yesterday.

It happens that a good friend of mine Has a 1 yr old baby and she loves her husband. While she was explaining to me about how different it is to be “married” and have a baby than when you are just dating someone. Things change dramatically. and I’ve noticed as well.

She explained to me the hard time she was hiving with her husband arrivin at 2AM home, how her husband wouldn’t want to spend time with the baby, how he disrespected her, how he wouldn’t go out with her, heck!, the guy wounld’t even get a job! Yet when they were dating he used to be sweet and a bit corny, now he doesn’t… things change.

I’ve been wondering what is it that happens with us after we finally get  the “yes” and start dating, what is it that happens with people when they gat married?

I’ve heard the saying “magic is gone” but, did that magic ever exist? Are we just liars that trick women just to be with them and have them as slaves in home? Are we fake people? Was it ever fun to go out with the women that is now your spouse?

Why the change? I really think small details and a bit of responsabilty make the difference between having an excellent or bad union, that’s all she’s asking for. I mean… Why don’t we get that women like to feel pretty, desired and safe? Is it so hard to accomplish that?

I know i sonud like a woman typing this  but sometimes, I do not get our species ….

Anywho, g2g I’m hungry….